Food: Sprite & sherbet punch and mini cakes that the girls decorate themselves.
Games:
Parade of Princesses - everyone makes a crown and creates a royal name. Then they are presented to the court.
Princess Pinata - Make or buy a princess pinata. Then fill it with bracelets, rings,necklaces, & M&M packets, etc.
Princess Bingo - kids color a page of princess picture squares, cut them out, and glue them onto a bingo card. Then play with M&Ms or Skittles.
Kiss the frog - the kids walk on pictures of various princesses and one frog while music plays. If you land on the frog when the music stops, you have to kiss the frog.